There’s this unwritten rule that when it comes to bars all that’s going on is women fending off men that want to sleep with them. While this definitely is true often, it’s not always the case. There are bar flies, or women who frequent bars in hopes of getting men to buy them some drinks or take them home for the night. Bar flies are named so because they swarm and they’re pesky. When you find yourself the center of their attention, you have to ditch her fast. The longer you wait, the harder it will be to break free from her attentions. It doesn’t take too much, but it does take some skill if you want to come out a gentleman in the long run. Be Polite You might be wondering why you have to care whether or not you’re nice to her if you don’t want her attention. Bars are small, even in bigger cities you’ll find that women all make friends with each other and if you tell of the fly then you’re going to risk her telling every woman there that you’re a jerk. Instead be polite. Since this woman probably has been drinking, be overly polite. Tell her that you’re flattered by the attention but…