So you’ve gotten into hookup dating and now you’re out with a woman who’s just as sexually attracted to you as you are to her. You’re primed and ready to blow but it seems like she might need a little time. Should you push for it or just let her do her own thing until she’s ready? Unless you’re the world’s biggest asshole, the right answer is the latter one and the reasons for that are numerous. Hookups might just be all about sex, but sex is also something that has different levels of intimacy and meaning for different people. So if you want this particular hookup to go off smoothly, you’re going to have to let her set the pace. She Might Be Uncomfortable Just because she was willing to come home with you doesn’t mean that she’s a raging sex kitten once the lights go down and the clothes come off. In fact, she might be feeling nervous and insecure. If that’s the case and you start pushing for her to put out, it’s only going to start making her feel more and more uncomfortable. And if you push too far, she’ll probably just bail, leaving you alone and horny with a very sad erection. The more comfortable…
