If you’ve been playing the hookup game for any real amount of time, then by now you know there is a lot involved in actually having casual sex. First, you have to build a trust with her. Sometimes that doesn’t take very long, but sometimes it can seem like it goes on forever. Once you’ve met up with a woman from the Internet, it can take a little while before you actually get around to hooking up. Once you do, you might decide to make it a regular thing. When that happens, you might find that it’s not always easy to keep the relationship all about sex. If you’ve got a friend with benefits, then you know sometimes her attention can wander. She doesn’t always remember that you’re just there for the casual hookup. Don’t worry: you’re not about to accidentally end up in a relationship with her! If she spends all your time together talking about unrelated things or trying to get you into her hobbies, though, it’s a problem. You need to know how to talk to her so you can turn things around. Otherwise, the status of your hookup is going to be in jeopardy. It’s casual now, but is it going to stay that way? You…