Asking Your Fling to Pay More Attention to You Made Easy

Posted August 10, 2015 by Hookup Coach. Filed under Blog.

Being in a casual fling that’s all about sex is a far cry from what it’s like to be in a committed relationship. Because of that, you might think the kinds of emotions you feel will be completely different, true. That’s not entirely true, though. In fact, a lot of the emotions you might feel during a relationship can crop up at other times, too. If you’re not expecting them, then you could end up landing yourself in some deep and hot water. For example, what if you feel like the lady you’ve been hooking up with isn’t paying enough attention to you? Just because you’re not dating doesn’t mean you don’t want to keep in touch. You might also not be having the sex you want in this situation. That’s because a lack of attention can translate into a lack of communication. That’s a big problem for both of you. Don’t convince yourself that you’re just being dumb by wanting more of her attention. It could be the key to keeping your fling alive. If you’re worried about how to bring it up without sounding weird, worry no more. Here’s a simple guide to doing it! Ask Nicely So You Don’t Seem Clingy The worst thing you can do…

Appropriate Levels of Kink for Hookups

Posted August 7, 2015 by Hookup Coach. Filed under Blog.

It’s important to know the limits when you go to hook up with a woman. You want to be kinky, but you don’t want to push it too far. You certainly don’t want to have a purely vanilla hookup, as that can be quite boring for everyone involved. It’s difficult to know how much kink is too much. You don’t want to scare her off by bringing in a kink that’s way too hardcore for her. You don’t want to completely ignore kink in your hookups, either. It’s a difficult balance to find, but trust us – it exists. There is an appropriate level of hookup for casual hookups, and we’re here to tell you how to find it. If you plan on having lots of kinky hookups in the future, we have the information you’re going to need. Here’s what you need to know about kinky sex in hookups and what might not be appropriate. Why Isn’t Every Kink Appropriate for Hookups? You might be under the impression that when it comes to hookups, everything and anything goes. This is a good sentiment, but sadly it’s not the reality of it. Having a hookup with a woman means you’re pretty much just having a one night stand. The truth…

Adjusting to Hookup Dating After a Breakup

Posted August 1, 2015 by Hookup Coach. Filed under Blog.

If you’re just getting out of a relationship, there are a lot of things you’re going to have to adjust to. Depending on how long said relationship lasted you might have to go through a longer adjustment period than you would have had to otherwise. It’s common for men and women alike to decide to go on the rebound after a breakup, but sometimes this ends in disaster. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to score some hookups to get you feeling better about yourself, but if you’ve been out of the game for a while it’s going to be a little tough to get right back into it. Fortunately for you, this is an adjustment that’s pretty easy to make as long as you know what to expect. Only One Expectation If you’re recently out of a serious relationship, you’ll be used to thinking about a ton of expectations when it comes to the other sex. This isn’t the case anymore, particularly if you’re just looking to shack up. There’s only one expectation you need to worry about and that’s the mutual expectation that both you and the lady you end up going home with are going to put out. Every other kind of expectation belongs to committed dating, which…

A Quick and Dirty Guide to Hooking Up in Public

Posted July 28, 2015 by Hookup Coach. Filed under Blog.

Variety is the spice that keeps life from being dull and boring. The same thing holds true when it comes to the casual sex that you seek out. If you do the same thing over and over again, you’re eventually going to lose your taste for it. You might even think it’s time to quit having hookups because you aren’t enjoying it anymore. That’s not actually what’s going on, though. Think about it: where have you been hooking up? If the answers are limited to locations such as your own home, the homes of your flings, or whichever motel happens to be closest, then you’ve found your problem. If you aren’t changing up where you hook up, of course you’re going to get bored! Why not try spicing things up a bit? For example, you could always try hooking up in public. That doesn’t mean having sex in the middle of a mall fountain, though. You’ll have to be a little more subtle about things than that. If the idea sounds scary, don’t worry too much. With a little bit of knowledge and courage, you’ll be able to have an incredible time. The risk will definitely be worth the reward! Choose Your Locations Very Carefully You’re not going to have…

4 Unexpected Ways Women Grade You on Dates

Posted July 21, 2015 by Hookup Coach. Filed under Blog.

Have you ever been on a bad date where you felt like every time you opened your mouth, you lost some points? It’s true that women do grade you overall during a date; while they might not be able to score you out of 100 or give you a letter grade, these ladies know when you’re dipping past the point of no return, and you’re definitely not getting anything good from her tonight. You know to avoid conversation about religion or politics, but here’s four rather unexpected things that effect your grade at the end of the night. How Well You Drive While getting into an accident would obviously lose you quite a few points (even if no one was hurt) women want to know that you’re a good, stable driver who isn’t about to run them off the road. They like to feel like their date is their protector; they shouldn’t feel like they need a guardian angel just to protect themselves every time that they climb into your vehicle. Take things a little slower (though not slow enough to be an actual safety hazard) and you should be fine. How Well You Tip Women care about tipping. They care a lot. How you treat severs says a lot…

4 Things Women Need to Know Before They Hookup

Posted July 16, 2015 by Hookup Coach. Filed under Blog.

There’s a well kept secret to online dating. Are you ready? It’s simple. The secret is… women want to have sex too. They really do. So many movies and songs make it sound like it’s such an accomplishment to get a woman to have sex with you. Really, it wouldn’t be if you would just get out of your own way and let it happen. Give a woman the right information and her desires will tip your way: which is why you should find a way to let her know these four things early in the evening. If They Can Stay the Night Women don’t like taking the bus home at 3:30am, still in their date night clothes, smelling like sex. It’s just not a comfortable thing for them to do. The bus is sure to be full of creepy people, and even if it’s not everyone on it is still going to know that she had some late night boot knocking that kept her out later than she intended. Women like to know whether or not they can crash at your place. It determined whether or not she’ll have sex, or at least will make sure that she lets you take her back there early in the evening, so…

4 Phrases to Use Sparingly on Dating Sites

Posted July 13, 2015 by Hookup Coach. Filed under Blog.

The key to success on a dating site is making sure that you can stand out from the crowd. This means that your picture has to be clean and good. It means that you have to take care to fill out your profile with interest facts but also not make it too long-or too short. It means that you have to be careful which words you use in your messages, and that’s what this article is about. There are four overplayed and flat out boring phrases that you need to cut from your first messages ASAP. Message Me If First of all, this sounds like something that only comes off a form letter. No one naturally ends their message with “message me if” and then anything else. She knows when she should message you: when she likes you. It’s up to you to get her to like you when you’re sending the message in the first place. She knows how to send a message back. This means that you’re going to have to get rid of the copy and paste responses, or at least dress them up a little. A woman likes to feel special enough that a man actually read her profile. Nice (Body Part Here) Even if all…

3 Ways to Cancel a Date Right Before it Starts

Posted July 7, 2015 by Hookup Coach. Filed under Blog.

Scoring hookups through the Internet can be a hell of a lot of fun, but it’s also a lot of work, too. The work might not be hard, but there is a lot of it! You’ve got a ton of things to keep track of on every site you use. That means you have to spend a lot of time on those sites, too. It’s not all bad. After all, the time you have to commit is spent looking at pictures of gorgeous women and imagining having a fling with them. That’s why you usually want to get as much out of every chance that comes your way. You don’t want to be left wondering whether or not you could have had a better time. Sometimes, though, you don’t always want to actually have the dates you commit to. It’s true: even after that huge investment of time and labor, sometimes, you just don’t want to go through with it. There’s nothing wrong with getting cold feet or changing your mind. You just need to know what to do in that situation. How can you cancel a potential hookup when you’re already supposed to be on your way to meet her? Call and Say Some Emergency Happened The “something came…

3 Methods for Handling Getting Stood Up

Posted July 3, 2015 by Hookup Coach. Filed under Blog.

In a perfect world, every date that you went out on would end in the exact kind of hookup situation that you wanted. Every sexy lady you messaged online would write you back right away. In that perfect world, she’d be ready to start fooling around the minute you met up. Unfortunately, that world doesn’t exist for real. Bad dates can and do happen. That’s something that you’ve probably already prepared yourself for. Sometimes, though, the dates that you arrange don’t end up happening at all. Have you thought about that scenario yet? Usually, you hear about girls getting stood up by guys who just didn’t want to date them. The truth is, women do it to men, too. If you get stood up, it could be really embarrassing. It might even feel damaging to your self esteem. That’s why you need to know what to do before you end up in the situation. Otherwise, you could end up doing something that you regret. Even if you don’t, having a bad time isn’t a part of your plans. That’s why you need to prepare for the very real possibility that a woman will just decide she has something better to do. Give Her a Piece of Your Mind… Calmly If…

3 Accessories That Will Take Your Look to the Next Level

Posted June 26, 2015 by Hookup Coach. Filed under Blog.

In the course of all your preparations for using hookup sites, you’ve probably read plenty of advice on how to fix up your appearance. After all, if you look like crap, then your chances of actually scoring a hookup are also crap. Looking good is important, but it’s not all about the clothes you wear. As a matter of fact, what you choose to go along with your clothes is just as important as what you wear. That’s right: we’re talking about accessories. Don’t afraid or panic, because they’re not just weird things that women wear. There are tons of great male accessories that can really complete your look. Not only that, but you can even use them as status symbols to try and impress the women that you’re meeting up with. If you just show up in a plain old outfit, she might not mind, but she’s not going to be impressed. Shouldn’t you be doing your best to blow her away? If you do that, she’s going to want to try harder in the bedroom. That’s why it’s time to head out the door and get ready to accessorize. Here’s what you need to be equipped with. Aviator Sunglasses Will Jazz You Right Up If you’re squinting into…

Asking Your Fling to Pay More Attention to You Made Easy

Appropriate Levels of Kink for Hookups

Adjusting to Hookup Dating After a Breakup

A Quick and Dirty Guide to Hooking Up in Public

4 Unexpected Ways Women Grade You on Dates

4 Things Women Need to Know Before They Hookup

4 Phrases to Use Sparingly on Dating Sites

3 Ways to Cancel a Date Right Before it Starts

3 Methods for Handling Getting Stood Up

3 Accessories That Will Take Your Look to the Next Level

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