“Try to please her”
This is truly the stuff of nightmares, but you need to be prepared for the eventuality. This could happen to you, whether you like it or not. You’re with a beautiful women when the unthinkable happens – you can’t actually get it up for her. What are you supposed to do? This can make things unbelievably awkward and uncomfortable, and you need to know how to fix it. There are plenty of reasons why this might have happened. Still, you need to be able to deal with it so there’s only minimal awkwardness. It doesn’t need to be the end of your world. It’s still not easy to know how to react or what to do, though. If you ever find yourself in this situation, here’s what you need to do to make things work out a bit better than they seem to be:
Focus on the Foreplay for a While
If you don’t think you’re going to be able to get it up right away, it could be in your best interests to focus on the foreplay for a little while. She certainly won’t mind if you take the opportunity to please her a bit more before trying to turn it into full blown sex. Try to take her mind off of the fact that you haven’t been able to get it up yet by blowing her mind. Go down on her so she doesn’t have a chance to latch onto your dick and figure out that it’s still flaccid. You might just wind up getting a second wind while you’re in the middle of pleasing her, so it’s best to delay the freak out if possible. If you still can’t get it up after going down on her for a while, then you might be facing a serious issue.
Laugh it off and Move On
Sometimes it’s just not going to happen. If you learn to laugh at your misfortune, it won’t be nearly as awkward for you. Just laugh it off and tell her you were nervous or you had too much to drink. Let her know you’re willing to try again another time, or try out some foreplay and see if it’ll happen later on. She’s probably not going to freak out about it, so there’s no need to worry about getting laughed at. If she’s going to laugh at you, she’ll do so in the privacy of her own home later on.
Make a Break for It
“Act like someone you know just died”
Sometimes the embarrassment is just too much to handle! You really don’t want her to know that you can’t get it up. This may be the time to fake a family emergency and make a break for it. That’ll certainly explain the flaccid state of your manhood, if nothing else. This does take some acting skills to achieve, but it’ll be worth it in the end. You won’t have to deal with any embarrassment, just her pity as you pretend to be heartbroken over your dead uncle.
