“Use your best tricks to turn her on”
If you’ve been playing the hookup game for any real amount of time, then by now you know there is a lot involved in actually having casual sex. First, you have to build a trust with her. Sometimes that doesn’t take very long, but sometimes it can seem like it goes on forever. Once you’ve met up with a woman from the Internet, it can take a little while before you actually get around to hooking up. Once you do, you might decide to make it a regular thing. When that happens, you might find that it’s not always easy to keep the relationship all about sex.
If you’ve got a friend with benefits, then you know sometimes her attention can wander. She doesn’t always remember that you’re just there for the casual hookup. Don’t worry: you’re not about to accidentally end up in a relationship with her! If she spends all your time together talking about unrelated things or trying to get you into her hobbies, though, it’s a problem. You need to know how to talk to her so you can turn things around. Otherwise, the status of your hookup is going to be in jeopardy. It’s casual now, but is it going to stay that way? You need to have a chat!
Gently Remind Her Why You’re Meeting Up
As usual, the easiest solution is usually to just talk to her about things. Chances are high that she doesn’t even know what she’s doing. Tell her that you feel like the focus of your time together is drifting. Ask if you could get back to basics. Be sure to drop enough hints that she gets what you mean. Otherwise, the problem is going to persist. Don’t just blurt out that you want to have sex. Ease her back into the idea.
Try to Be Subtle and Seduce Her
Of course, if talking isn’t really your thing, you could always try showing her what you want. Take her out on a fancy date, or spend an evening in trying to woo her. Pour on all of your charm. Once you do that, you’ll almost be home free. When things are heating up, try mentioning that you wished it happened more often. She should get the hint. Soon, you’ll be back to having the perfect hookup.
Bail On Her and Find a Better Lady
“Move on and find other hot girls”
If nothing else is working, there’s no reason to keep wasting your time. You’re trying to hook up, not build a relationship. Forget her. Head back to your site and start the search all over again. You might even try updating your profile to make what you want even clearer. Being up front with women about your desires can usually win you points. The one thing you shouldn’t do is stay in the same situation. If you do, things are going to get very complicated down the road. Spare yourself from the headaches. Just find another woman who knows how to keep things simple.
