“Try to avoid clingy women”
Casual dating (or hookup dating, as it’s commonly known) is at the same time both very different and very similar to conventional dating. On the surface it’s basically the same: two people who are attracted to each other want to spend more time together. However, the reason they want to spend time with each other is basically only to have sex, which means that the relationship is more a physical one than an emotional one. If you’re okay with that (which you probably are, considering you’re reading this), you’re probably ready to move onto finding the ladies who’d love to get with you for a night or two. However, before you commit to dropping your pants and nailing a perfect stranger, there are a couple things you need to be prepared for.
Emotions Still Count
Yeah, she’s willing to have sex with you after knowing you for less than four hours. This must automatically mean that she’s on the very same page as you regarding hookups, right? Not necessarily. Just because she’s quick to hop in the sack with you doesn’t mean that she’s in the same place mentally as you are. Sex can be a very intimate and emotional experience for some people, and if it’s that way for her she might develop feelings for you after sleeping with you. The risk of this increases the more you keep hooking up with her, to the point where she’ll probably confess she’s in love with you. Being as you were looking for a “sex without strings” arrangement, this is probably not the kind of thing that you want to hear. If this happens you’re going to have to find a way to let her down gently.
Not Every Woman is Going to Want to Nail You
You might think that just because you’re single and horny you’re going to have a long line of ladies waiting to get busy with you, but that’s really not the case. This isn’t to say that you’ll have a tough time finding a hookup partner, but it is to say that if you had dreams of being able to pick between six or seven women right away that you’re going to be disappointed. Just like with conventional dating, you’re going to have to do some shopping around before you find ladies who’d like to get naughty with you. If you’d like to increase your chances, your best bet is to make use of an online hookup dating website. You’ll have access to hundreds of ladies who are horny and looking to get freaky, which is a lot more than you’d have access to by other methods.
Crazy Is Always a Risk
“Avoid the woman who is prone to jealousy and bitchiness”
You’ve probably experienced the kind of emotional craziness that can come from a committed relationship before, so it’s normal to assume that when you switch over to casual dating that craziness won’t be there. Unfortunately, this isn’t the case. The ladies who are into hooking up are just as close to jealousy as ever other kind of woman out there, which means that you’re always going to run the risk of hooking up with one who loves drama, confrontation, or is overly possessive.
