“Stop her from breaking your precious items”
It’s not something any guy wants to think about, but sometimes you end up picking a bad apple from an online hookup site. Maybe you were using a low quality site, or maybe she duped you, but either way, she’s a problem. Maybe the sex is crazy and awesome, but the rest of her behavior isn’t as fun. A hookup that goes wrong like this could end up controlling your life. Not only that, it can really screw up a lot of things, too. What are you going to do if you hook up with a lady who ends up smashing some of your things because she’s mad at you? That’s not cool.
It’s going to be worse if you let it keep going. You don’t want her to end up breaking something really expensive, like your laptop computer or your huge TV. You’ve got take action. Don’t just stand by and let her have a tantrum like a young child or a puppy. Step up and be a man. A fling that does more damage than it’s worth is a huge liability. Here’s what to do when she starts acting like a bull in the china shop of your home.
Calmly Tell Them You Don’t Appreciate It
The first step to fixing a problem like this is always to try talking to her. There’s not a bad chance that you’ll be able to convince her to stop. Tell her that you don’t like it when she breaks your things. They’re yours, after all, so if she wants to break something, she should own it. Finally, remind her that you didn’t start hooking up to smash stuff. With luck, she’ll listen. When she calms down, don’t forget to have some makeup sex!
Threaten to End the Arrangement if She Doesn’t Stop
“Leave my place now!”
If talking to her alone isn’t enough to make her quit, threaten to break it off. Maybe the sex you have with her is really good, but it’s not worth property damage. Give her an ultimatum and a time limit. If she doesn’t stop causing problems in time, then you’re going to have to follow through. Break it off. There’s no reason to hook up with a woman who doesn’t respect you.
Call the Cops and Get Ready to Press Charges
In the worst case scenarios, you’re going to have to get the authorities involved. If she starts trashing your really expensive stuff, you can’t just let it slide. Call for the cops and tell them what’s up when they arrive. Even when they arrest her, you can’t let yourself feel bad. She was the one ruining your life, after all. A casual hookup shouldn’t be so violent or frustrating to deal with. Press charges, too. It might seem cruel, but you need to send a message. When all is said and done, you can finally start looking again. Just don’t try to hook up with another woman who will try to wreck your things.
