“Ask about her favorite novels, music, and more”
If you want to stand a good chance of going home with her tonight you have to bring the charming company. You have to be smooth, and you have to keep the talk coming. It doesn’t sound difficult; women love to talk about themselves, right? Unfortunately, it can be hard to keep that going for a whole night, particularly if she’s shy. A lot of women who might be into casual sex are surprisingly shy, so here are four ways to keep up the patter even if she doesn’t want to just talk about herself all night.
Bring up Popular Culture
Music, movies, celebrity gossip. Do what you have to do to get women to engage with you. Follow her lead on these subjects and keep things light and common knowledge. You don’t want to get roped into debating the various methods of bands that you’ve never heard of before (and lied about knowing so a hot woman would think you’re cool). Keep things very much in the public domain and you’ll both have a good time while neither of you look stupid.
Ask about Her Travel Plans
She might not be planning the trip just yet, but everyone has that “Someday, I’d love to see (fill in the blank)…” dream. Ask her where she wants to go, and then be prepared to smile and nod while she tells you all about Morocco, or Ireland, or Thailand, or wherever it is that she pictures herself hen her boss leaves a great, steaming pile of mess on her desk that she has to sort out by the end of the work day or else she won’t get to go home.
Talk about the People
“You should talk about the people who’re sitting around you”
If all else fails, there are some people around you all the time in public. You can turn people watching into a game. A simple game to play is to look at someone and then decide what they’re guilty of; that sweet mother of three over there is guilty of tax evasion, but her evil, snarling little toddler? Murder. These are fun games that can quickly become in jokes with the woman that you’re dating. The increase in intimacy boosts your odds of having another increase in intimacy very soon, which is all to the better when you’re making small talk by spying on people.
Schedule Your Talking Time for after an Activity
If you know that talking isn’t her strong suit (or yours) you should do your best to make sure that you go to an event or see a movie before you trying to talk. This way you can talk about the movie or the event, and have a safe topic that you can always come back to as the night progresses. There’s nothing wrong with having a perfect plan, and doing the active part of your date before the part that requires a lot of conversation is great. It’s an easy way for her to never know that you had trouble thinking of topics because the answers are right in front of you.
