Not everyone’s on the same page when it comes to commitment in dating. This is particularly true if you’ve just entered the casual dating scene. You might think that everyone you meet when you’re looking to start hookup dating is only out for sex the same as you, but that’s not always going to be the case. Some women think that they can find love anywhere, including the hookup scene, which means that there’s always the risk that you’re going to end up in bed with one of them when you’re looking to play the field. When this happens, you’ll probably end up sleeping with a woman with the intent of keeping it casual, only to have her start pressuring you for something more. Luckily for you, there are many ways you can avoid committing no matter what she asks you for.

Be Blunt

If you both hopped into bed with each other on the understanding that this was a sex-only scenario, you’re absolutely within your rights to say it like it is. Remind her that you want sex and that you weren’t in any way interested in getting any kind of commitment. Yes, it might sound kind of harsh (especially if you spend the entire night doing all kinds of naughty things to each other), but it’s also the truth. Saying it like it is might help to get her to see the big picture, which is that you were only really interested in sleeping with her. Of course, being blunt about it might also lead to her getting upset but at least you won’t be coerced into being in a relationship with her.

Heat Things Up

If she keeps nagging at you for commitment, turn the tables on her. Turn on the charm and get her wet and begging for it. This is an easy way to distract her. Of course, this tactic may not always work, but at least it’ll be fun to try. If it does work out for you, it’ll only keep working for so long before she catches onto what you’re doing and you’ll have to find another way to deal with the problem.

Highlight the Reasons Why It’s a Bad Idea

She might think that the two of you are a match made in heaven, but you’re probably not sold on that idea. If she keeps insisting that the two of you would make a good couple, you need to list all the reasons why you disagree. Get specific. For example, if the two of you only get together when you’re both horny, you clearly don’t know that much about each other. Don’t hesitate from being blunt here, either; if you can’t stand certain things about her, let her know and tell her to do the same. This is a good way to drive the point home that outside of sex, the two of you really aren’t all that compatible.

Bail

If you’re tired of her nagging you for commitment and the lust’s worn off a bit, you can also just bail on the whole situation. Yeah, it’s a douchebag move, but at least you won’t end up with a girlfriend that you never really wanted to have.