While virginities are quickly losing their ground in what’s desirable in a woman, there’s still something to be said about them. Virginity is attractive because it’s becoming so rare. Even more so in men. When you’re on the hunt online or out on the town for a woman, you might want to consider telling some white lies about your virginity level to get her attention. This works better than you’d think for a few reasons, so if you are okay with excluding your past experiences then you’ll get to renew them with a new woman.

Why It Works

Who cares if a guy has any virginity left? The women that are suddenly more empowered. Like we mentioned earlier, it’s not as big of a deal if women still have their virginity when they’re young. It’s more commonplace to see empowered, independent women getting what they want in bed and not having to feel bad about it. Thanks to that they want to be the one that’s more experienced and to teach you the ropes. It’s desirable to them that they could be the first one to claim whatever you haven’t done. The first time cumming from a blowie, the first time doing it in certain positions, or even the first time having a one night stand all make her feel sexy and in control. There’s a certain feeling of accomplishment that she will get out of it and you’ll get to have sex. A win-win situation for all.

What to Say

When you’re figuring out what to tell her there are a few classics that work as well as a few random instances that work on a certain girl. Of course you’re not going to walk up to a woman and tell her all the nasty things that you’ve always wanted to try (wink wink), instead you strike up the conversation. None of the tricks that you want to pull off involving lying about what you’ve done will work if you aren’t already somehow connected to her. After a few drinks or some messages back and forth you can delve into flirtier subjects. Talk about first kisses or the last guy that she dated. Only answer the same questions that you’re asking if she asks them. Never volunteer real facts (i.e. “I’m not over my ex”) and try to answer them fully and vaguely if she brings them up. Playfully mention that you’ve never gotten past a certain “base”, or stage of foreplay with a woman. That should intrigue her enough to poke around and find out what else you haven’t done. Be specific with these, since you’ll have to remember it later after she gives you your first hickey or whatever it is you had mentioned. Of course, you do want to make sure to tell her how amazing she is at it. That might even be enough to get her to hookup later on.