“Make sure you choose your hookup spot wisely”
Variety is the spice that keeps life from being dull and boring. The same thing holds true when it comes to the casual sex that you seek out. If you do the same thing over and over again, you’re eventually going to lose your taste for it. You might even think it’s time to quit having hookups because you aren’t enjoying it anymore. That’s not actually what’s going on, though. Think about it: where have you been hooking up? If the answers are limited to locations such as your own home, the homes of your flings, or whichever motel happens to be closest, then you’ve found your problem.
If you aren’t changing up where you hook up, of course you’re going to get bored! Why not try spicing things up a bit? For example, you could always try hooking up in public. That doesn’t mean having sex in the middle of a mall fountain, though. You’ll have to be a little more subtle about things than that. If the idea sounds scary, don’t worry too much. With a little bit of knowledge and courage, you’ll be able to have an incredible time. The risk will definitely be worth the reward!
Choose Your Locations Very Carefully
“Don’t hook up in the middle of a park”
You’re not going to have any success if you’re stupid about your choices. Scout out locations and choose your spots wisely. They should be public, but secluded. To continue with the park example, try finding a secret area surrounded by thick bushes. That way you can have fun but still be out of sight. You’re not trying to put on a show here! Exercise good judgment when picking hookup spots and you’ll be just fine.
Have an Escape Plane in Mind
Once you know where you’re going to do it, you need to know how to get out of there. If it seems like someone is going to discover you, you need to be able to escape. Plan a quick and easy way to get back to your car if something happens. You might even try practicing it with her before you get started. Don’t let today be the day that you get arrested for indecent exposure. That’s going to ruin your fling for sure. Play it safe and know how to make yourselves scarce.
Be Quick and Have Fun When You Do It
When you finally bring her to your spot, don’t dawdle. You can’t waste time when hooking up in public. After all, you could be discovered at any moment. That’s a big part of the fun! That doesn’t mean you should let yourselves get caught, though. Have fun, but make sure that you finish things up quickly. Now is not the time for a passionate, hours long sex session. You also don’t want to accidentally fall asleep in your hiding spot, so don’t get too comfortable. Just lay back and enjoy the dirty thrill you get from having public sex without anyone else knowing about it!
