“Make sure you don’t talk about your ex-girlfriends”
There’s a well kept secret to online dating. Are you ready? It’s simple. The secret is… women want to have sex too. They really do. So many movies and songs make it sound like it’s such an accomplishment to get a woman to have sex with you. Really, it wouldn’t be if you would just get out of your own way and let it happen. Give a woman the right information and her desires will tip your way: which is why you should find a way to let her know these four things early in the evening.
If They Can Stay the Night
Women don’t like taking the bus home at 3:30am, still in their date night clothes, smelling like sex. It’s just not a comfortable thing for them to do. The bus is sure to be full of creepy people, and even if it’s not everyone on it is still going to know that she had some late night boot knocking that kept her out later than she intended. Women like to know whether or not they can crash at your place. It determined whether or not she’ll have sex, or at least will make sure that she lets you take her back there early in the evening, so she has time to get home.
That You’ll Be Discreet
“Don’t take her picture without her permission”
Men who sleep around are stallions, and women who sleep around are ruined. It’s not fair, but it’s the way society still looks at women who get what they want and make a lot of men happy in the process. So she has to know that she can trust you to, at the very minimum, not be gross about it. Don’t post her pictures without her consent, and leave names out of it when you’re telling your friends about this hot woman you slept with.
How Much Fun They Can Expect to Have
“Try to make her happy”
Honestly, women are in this for a good time. This means that you should lay off of anything that might cause you a little embarrassing trouble later in the night. Sure, it would be great if you could pound three shots and then take her home and pound her instead… but there’s a reason that it’s called whiskey dick. Don’t give her any reason to think you could be anything other than a fantastic lay.
If You’re Going to Be Weird about It
Remember how women want casual sex? They’re also perfectly capable of getting it without getting into emotional entanglements. They just need to know that you’re going to be okay with keeping it cool. Don’t talk about your exes; talking about only one makes it seem like you’re not over her, whereas talking about multiple exes will just make her think that you get too invested too fast and then can’t let any of them go. This is pretty unsexy, so you should curb your enthusiasm for your exes while you’re on a date you want to turn into a first date hookup.
