“Enjoy yourself as much as possible”
In a perfect world, every date that you went out on would end in the exact kind of hookup situation that you wanted. Every sexy lady you messaged online would write you back right away. In that perfect world, she’d be ready to start fooling around the minute you met up. Unfortunately, that world doesn’t exist for real. Bad dates can and do happen. That’s something that you’ve probably already prepared yourself for. Sometimes, though, the dates that you arrange don’t end up happening at all. Have you thought about that scenario yet? Usually, you hear about girls getting stood up by guys who just didn’t want to date them. The truth is, women do it to men, too. If you get stood up, it could be really embarrassing. It might even feel damaging to your self esteem. That’s why you need to know what to do before you end up in the situation. Otherwise, you could end up doing something that you regret. Even if you don’t, having a bad time isn’t a part of your plans. That’s why you need to prepare for the very real possibility that a woman will just decide she has something better to do.
Give Her a Piece of Your Mind… Calmly
If you’ve got a way to get in touch with her, it’s not wrong to tell her you’re upset. You just shouldn’t use it as a chance to yell at her. If you feel like you’re going to be mean, keep it to yourself. Otherwise, it’s fine to tell her that what she did was wrong. After all, you spent a lot of time and maybe even money getting prepared. She could have at least had the courtesy to cancel on you. Unless there was an emergency, there’s no excuse. This won’t make her show up, but it will make you feel better.
Enjoy the Date On Your Own Anyway
Why let her ruin the evening you planned? Go on and enjoy yourself anyway! If you bought alcohol, have a party for yourself. If you made dinner plans, go and have an extravagant meal by yourself. You won’t be paying for a second person, after all. Sure, your night probably won’t end in some fun and casual sex. That’s okay, though. Sometimes, a woman will stand you up just to try and make you feel bad. Don’t let them win. Go enjoy yourself anyway.
Forget About Her and Start Over Fresh
“Move on and find other hot girls”
If you really want an active solution, you could always try just ditching her entirely. Skip the date you planned out, too. Instead, hop back on your hookup site of choice. The best way to move on is to get back in the saddle, right? Start hunting for your next hookup. Fire off a few messages before the night is over. By doing this, you’ll be able to move on and forget that you got stood up. It’ll quickly become a thing of the past. And who knows? Maybe you’ll get lucky and score a date for tomorrow night instead.
